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Alcohol is a drug like
cocaine and marijuana. It is dangerous for kids and its use is illegal for
individuals under the age of 21. The kids, who use alcohol, may become the
victims of violent crimes or can be involved in drinking related traffic
crashes or accidents. They may also have to face the problems at school.
You may think, “My child is not drinking yet.” No, you are wrong. You must keep them aware
of drinking and drugs. If you want to be strong parents, then, you would have
to plane for it. As a parent you, yourself should have proper awareness about
alcoholic products and their harm. After that, you need to take some steps for
your child, against the use of alcoholic drinks.
Now the question is how you would deter your child from
alcohol abuse. You can do a few things to prevent your child from alcohol.
1)
You should
observe keenly your child’s activities, i-e what is he doing? How does he
spending his time? You should inquire about
his routine, time to time, so that the child remains alert about his routine which is
being observed by his parents. But it does not mean you impose yourself on him/her,
this may make him frustrated. Your behavior should be friendly.
2)
You need to build
strong taboo to your child. You need to discuss his/her problems and try to
make yourself caring parents, so that they do not hesitate to share their
problems. Because sometime they are forced to take alcohol. You need to discuss
with them about their problems and get them out of bad situation.
3)
You must keep an
eye on your child’s company. You should
be aware of their friends and their parents, because, oftenly company affects the
habits. If your child is moving in a community having alcoholic background, then,
there would be a chance, your kid may start drinking.
4)
Another big
reason for drinking among kids; especially in teens, is, ad campaigns on TV
channels and other electronic media. The motivating style of ads and other
programs, such as movies, TV shows etc. attracts the innocent minds to use
alcoholic drinks. Hence the parents should make their children aware of fatal
effects of alcohol. The parents also need to avoid their children from watching
such harmful programs on electronic media.
5)
Another reason for drinking among kids or teen
is their boredom. Sometimes children start drinking to beet their boredom. For
this purpose, parents need to indulge their children in some healthy activities,
such as, after school supervised activities, and other co curricular activities.
If you belong to the community where schools do not offer such activities, then,
you have to manage alternative. For example, you can arrange a get together with
the help of other parents. Then your child no more need to drink to beet
his/her spare time.
6)
The most important
thing for parents regarding this issue is their role in their child’s life. A
parent is a role model for their young ones. Walk the talk, how can you expect
your child to stay away from alcohol if you, yourself don’t. You need not to
drink in the presence of your child.
7)
The depression is
another main reason for drinking. Therefore you need to keep your child away
from the issues that may make him/her depress. You must have to resolve your
family issues that cause tension in your family life.
8)
Research your
state law for underage drinking. Then have a sitting with your child and
discuss the outcomes of getting caught. It will make your child not only aware
of rule but also responsible.
9)
You can create a drinking contract for your
child. Suppose, you do not allow your child to attend a party where alcohol is
available, you also would have an offer to drive for your child anytime. Your
child would not travel with a person who is drinking. You can decide different
articles of contract by mutual understanding, and the consequences, in the case
of breaking contract.
10)
You can seek
positive mentor for your child, outside the family. The groups or persons who
would fortify belief and values of your family. Your child can formally obtain
a mentor through spiritual or religious groups.
Your
child is most precious treasure for you. You need to keep him away from bad
situations. Although, it needs a bit struggle, but your little effort can save
your future, because, child is your future. So, save your child, save your future.
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