Working Moms

Everyone wants to be independent. Today most of the young and energetic women are doing some job or business. But when they got married and have babies, it becomes quite difficult for women to continue their with their little kids. Therefore, many have say goodbye to their jobs and some of them continue their jobs and business as usual.
many of working moms face problems regarding their kids and jobs, because kids are really a full time job. Therefore it becomes so hard to balance the family needs and jobs. I salute those mothers who do such hard work. And the mothers who are not doing jobs or have left their jobs, I also solute them, because they sacrifice their carriers for sake of their little kids. Now, there are two types of mothers, 1st, are the mothers who have no one at home to take care their kids or are deprived of day care centers facility and 2nd, are the mothers who want to grow up their kids in their own supervision, because of their deep attachment to the kids.
 In our rural areas I have seen many mothers who were working in the fields, having their babies at their backs. They also perform all domestic tasks by themselves and have to serve their male companions ( husband, brothers, fathers, sons) too, as, our society is a pure male dominating society. So the working mothers that belong to my society have to suffer twice than that mother who are spending their lives in a developed and groom,ed society. 
In short, we should solute all working moms who have to perform double duty as compare to an ordinary at home mom.
Share your opinion and your own stories as a working mother.

Eating Problems

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Today I am writing this post because of an incident that happened a few moments ago. I was working on my P.C, and my little son was playing with my husband. He thought the child is might be hungry. So, he took some pieces of hickory nuts and started to give to Ashhal(my son). Ashhal will be of two years in May 2013. Anyway, when Ashhal started eating those nuts, the next moment was horrible for him. Because he was trying his best to swallow the nuts but he could not and what was next? You can imagine, the, next thing was bad vomiting, that was coming out not only from mouth but nose also, even he was unable to breathe properly. He was too much terrified. And denied to take anything like water or milk.
I became so embarrassed in this situation. Now, he is sleeping and looking so cute and innocent. I want to save you from such type of situation. Do not feed your little kids on hard stuff  or big bites. Always feed the kids on soft food and take them food in very small pieces or small bites that would be easy to injest for them.  -->

Online Games for kids.

Kids always love to play games. There are thousands of games are available on different websites. Some sites offer to play online and some are downloadable. Now it is up to the gamer, how he wants to play?  and what he wants to play? Because, there are many types of games, such as games for fun, learning games, games having campaigns and adventures etc.
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I have seen many kids who become addicted to these games. Now when you are going to allow your kid to play the game in your spare time, you must have to make a schedule for your child. Because access to everything is bad. The excessive use of online games is harmful to the eyes and physical growth of your child. And kids do not take much interest in other tasks. Therefore, I would suggest that there should be a proper schedule in which you decide how many hours a child should spend playing games and what type of games he should play. Suppose, one hour for funny games, one for learning games, one for intellectual activity, etc. It would be fruitful for your kids and you too.


Most Popular Cartoon Characters in 2012

Kids always love to watch cartoons. The experts try their best to create new things for their audience. In the same way, the animation industry is also working on creating new animated characters for kids. Some of these characters won everlasting fame, such as Tom and Jerry, Micky Mouse, Donald Duck, etc.
  • Tom and Jerry
  • Sponge Bob
  • Kung fu Panda
  • Ben 10
  • Looney Tunes
  • Scooby-Doo
  • Transformer
  • Care Bears
  • X-man
  • Power Puff

Chirstmas in Next Street!

--> As December gets started, everyone gets excited for Christmas. As usual, this year  also the Christmas appears more exciting and enjoyable. Either my country is a Muslim country but the Christmas is celebrated here with all its traditional joy.

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It was public holiday on 25 Dec. We were relaxed for next day.There is a church in next street. I can see it through my window It was 8:00 pm, I peep through the window, and saw an amazing scene. First of all I had a glance on colorful lights that were appearing more heart touching in that fogy night, and the cute kids with their colorful caps on their heads and with red noses, were playing in a circle, singing Christmas song. I wish to join those kids. They had very innocent smiles on their faces and light of joy in their eyes. Anyhow, they were careless about that chill and were enjoying those precious moments of  their life.I was enjoying those moments, suddenly someone knocked the door. When I opened it. There was a little kid having a cake in his hands with a cute smile. He belongs to a christian family that were living in my street. His mother is a good friend of mine, that's why she sent me that cake. We both send some gifts to each other at our special days.     
Next morning I visit that street. The church was beautifully decorated. The thing that appeals me more was the excitement of little kids. Some of them were playing in that street, some were crying for something, some were taking sweets and cake and some of them had gift packages in their hands and wanted to show those gifts to their friends. In the meanwhile, the Church bell rang and all hustle bustle was gone,   street was deserted. I could hear the songs that were being sung in the church. I came back to my home. And felt a new spirit in my soul. These moments were really unforgettable.     

Fashion for kids

--> Now a days everything needs to follow some trends. In the same way, the dressing and style express your style. As you are curious about your look and wants to be stylish and good looking, in the same way your kids also need to be good looking and charming.
As you know, little kids do not have any awareness. It depends on their care taker, how they make their kids stylish. It is training for your children to how dressed up properly, according to trend and their own look. The children, whose parents are conscious about their look and style, they are more sensible about their fashion, when they are grown up and not need to be dictated.
In this case, parents keep in view their kid's complexion and physic.Because when you go to shop dresses for you children and like the piece that appeals you in term of color and design. But, keep in your mind it may not suit to your child's complexion. Sometime you bought more fluffy and stuffy dress, but your kid is thin and lean, it would not suit him. Or some time you choose a bright color but your kid has some how dark complexion, then it would not make your child more prominent. Therefore I want to say, select according to your kid's look, not for only design and color.   
Some times kids not like to wear some type of stuff, e.g, my own niece hate to wear tight dresses. she likes to wear loose and soft dress.
The other thing is the color scheme. You manage it as contrast or matching. Some colors are suitable with any combination. Such as black, brown, gray, these colors facilitate you in shoe selection for kids.
Be charming and take care of your kids.

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Safety Tips for Kids at Play Ground

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Outdoor activity is an important part of child growth and development. Because exercise and supports are important for the physical growth and strength.Usually, kids are taken to the playgrounds for exercise and supports. And there are some things that can cause problems for kids.  According to a guess, round about 200,000 kids are treated in hospitals for the play ground injuries. My own niece got hurt in the playground,  4 years ago. She had a deep wound exact at her eyebrow and could not appear in exams. Therefore, some safety measures should be taken before let the kids at playgrounds.

Safety Tips at Playgrounds:

  • First of all play ground should be divided into three parts. One part for infants and toddlers. Second, for small children, from 2-6 years. and third one for older kids. And there should be very clear guide lines for each part. So that the kids may not get confused.
  • The surface and structure of playground be appropriate for kids. There should not be more slippery or  hard places. there should be no dangerous materials like broken glass or twisted metal, in the play ground.
  • The presence of some adult and mature person in the kid's play ground is necessary, for the proper supervision of kids.
  • The kids should be properly trained about the use and management of gaming equipment. Such as use of helmets, pads and other things. Particularly, the younger kids are mostly get injured by the swings. Suppose, a child has a cap on his head, and he is on swing. He feels that his cap is about to fall from his head, he would leave the swing rope to keep the cap at his head. That may make him unbalance and he falls from the swing. Now you can imagine the condition of that child. Now it is the responsibility of older people to make their kids  aware of preferences at the play ground.
  • The equipment should be properly checked by someone. The broken elements should be removed immediately. And it should also be kept in view that the game or the things which is going to be used by kids, if it suits them according to their age and physic.    

Universal Children Day (20 Nov)

Background:

 The Children's day is celebrated globally on 20, Nov. In 1953, It was first celebrated by the International Union of Children Welfare in Geneva. Then in the coming year, it was celebrated by United Nations, on 20th Nov. 20, Nov is the day when United Nations General Assembly aimed the declaration of the rights of children.  And on the same day, The convention on the Rights of Child was signed. Therefore, till now, 20, Nov is celebrated as International Children Day.

Universal Children's Day:

Universally Children's day is celebrated on 20, Nov. But different countries celebrate children's day on different dates. Such as in central African states  Children's day is celebrated on 25 Dec.  In the same way in China and Azerbaijan, it is celebrated on 1 June, and in Argentina, it is celebrated on the second Sunday of August. In short people in different countries celebrate this event on different dates and days.
But it is not the matter when it is going to be celebrated, the matter is its importance. Why is it celebrated?  It shows How much a nation is civilized? and How much it conceders its next generations? Because the children are the future of the world and world is that what we make it.
Anyhow, this day is celebrated for the children and their rights. The children have the right to live peacefully. In developed countries, apparently, children are safe and sound and have everything they need. But they have problems also. Most of the kids there suffer from loneliness and lack of attention by parents, as they spent their childhood in nurseries and boardings. Excessive use of alcohol in society causes trouble of alcoholic abuse. Although most people are sensible and take care of their kids while taking drugs. But some are careless about the effects on children.
In underdeveloped countries, the children's condition is worse, as most of them are deprived of their primary needs. Many kids are deprived of a typical childhood because of poverty and want. They have to labor for their family and their own living. Hence, child labor is common there. Kids work in auto workshops, shops and hotels, and many other places.
In short, I want to say that the exploitation of kid's rights should be condemned strictly. Because these children are our future. 


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